Hayley Garnett, a blogger and mother of three, asked, “Have you ever been trapped in a cycle of comparisons with your past soul?” She responded, “Most likely yes. Especially if your body has changed a lot after childbirth, it can make you frustrated and tired. But when your husband tells you that he loves you even more after giving him a baby, such things are not so important.”
“I know you’re on my side, so I’m thankful.”
Hayley and Cody celebrated their eleventh wedding anniversary in October 2020. They are the proud parents of twin girls and a boy. When you check their pictures, they look like a perfect family. This couple always has the feeling that everything is easily available. But that is not true. This family also has their doubts and difficulties.
Yes, women who physically give birth still means that the husband’s job is not just to watch the process from a distance. Cody is not only a father, and he is a real true love. “I thank you for being with me every day for the last 11 years. You have made me a better man, a stronger father, a more loving brother and son, and a better friend. I am glad I did not die before I met you,” he explained.
“What made me fall in love with her was that she had nothing to do with the parts of her body that were affected during her postpartum period.”
When Hayley asked Cody to write an article about her postpartum period, his first thought was that nothing had changed. The reasons he fell in love with her had nothing to do with her body or how it changed.
“She still has the same beautiful smile, determined mind, beautiful body, and strong work ethic as the girl I fell for 15 years ago.”
“She still has a sense of humor.”
“She still smells good.”
“The soft, pillow-like skin around her belly kept my three best friends for 18 months.”
These words are priceless: “The marks show the weight-bearing marks of two beautiful girls raised by this mother.” there is no reason for love to evaporate; it is the opposite – it is “At least by loving who my wife is.”
Cody noted that shortcomings make the world fun and that “if everything is flawless, we will be lazy.”
You need to follow some essential things to make your world better and keep your family happy.
“Be kind to one another.”
“Learn from your own mistakes and the mistakes of others.”
“Help those in need; let’s stop living like who.”
“Do not do a fair part to the husbands there who are doing diaper duty, cooking, cleaning, and telling your wife how beautiful she is – speeds up your game, bro.
We thank Haley and Cody for such a beautiful story that can inspire people worldwide and make it a better place!
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