Life is so much more straightforward when you accept your true self and love yourself for who you are. If you give any real idea about this matter, you will often find that we mess up our lives by pleasing others. Especially, if you care too much about other people’s opinions, you will never have the opportunity to dress the way you want, be with the people you like, or do whatever you want. You have no reason to worry about those things.
Those worth impressing want you to be yourself.
People who are important to you and play a special role in your life will never ask you to be someone other than yourself. They love you for who you are, and you will not want to do too much to impress them. Therefore, those who deserve to be with you do not need to pretend to be fake, and so you can be your true soul with those people.
You are the only one who can change yourself.
You may think that your partner, your parents, and perhaps your friends are the cause of the change in you. But the truth is that you are the only person who can change and change your habits and habits only if they mean something to you. However, even if you change certain things in your life to please others, you will never be happy with such actions, and you will become frustrated, hopeless, and anxious about your life.
Not everyone can be happy anyway.
Remember that you can never please everyone around you. Only a handful of people look forward to your success and waiting for you to achieve your goals. Many others around you are waiting for a moment to see your setbacks, so do not waste your thoughts on such people. You should not live the way others have defined the meaning of your life as important only to you, and therefore, stop trying to please others and prove yourself to them.
No one knows what works best for you.
Fancy parties, hundreds of photos posted on Facebook, and many friends to show you will mean nothing if you do not appreciate and care about those things. You are the only one who knows what is best for you, and you will never be happy trying to live the way society wants you to live. If you know you are doing the right thing and acting according to your choices, move on with confidence.
Failure has paved the way for greatness.
We can never succeed on our first attempt. One has to be extremely lucky to win without any failure. So, don’t be afraid to face setbacks. All our defeats are good lessons for life, and therefore do not be afraid to fail.